Arousal responds to more than attraction. It’s shaped by unseen psychological and emotional forces that most people never learn to recognise. Decoding Desire shows you how to identify them — and work with them instead of against them.
7 MODULES
36 SELF-PACED VIDEOS
9Hrs WORTH OF CONTENT DESIGNED TO BOOST YOUR DESIRE IQ

In the past, I really struggled to put my feelings about sex into words. I knew what I wanted, but whenever I tried to explain it, I’d just shut down. This course gave me the words to actually express what influences my desire for sex in a way that makes sense, not just to me, but to my partner too.

I was convinced my girlfriend's low interest in sex meant she wasn’t in love with me anymore. So it’s eased a lot of tension to learn that it’s never that black and white, and there are so many little hidden things that can get in the way of someone feeling turned on

I never realised how my attachment style was showing up in the bedroom. The way I’d pull away or overthink everything suddenly made sense. That part of the course definitely hit home

I’m a mix of Sensual and Mirror types, and my boyfriend’s more Erotic with a bit of Dependent. Learning about the different desire types helped us understand each other so much better and cleared up a lot of the misinterpretations we kept getting stuck on.

I thought that maybe this course was only going to be useful for couples, but I was wrong. It’s really helped me understand myself in a way I hadn’t before, and I feel so clear on what I actually desire sexually going into my next relationship.

I never thought something like this would actually pinpoint why my libido would spike or drop-off depending on all these hidden factors. Listening to the content in Decoding Desire gave me real insight — and yeah, it actually helped my relationship.



The Custom AI Compatibility Coach
Enter your top 2 Desire Types - instantly generate a comprehensive 11-section compatibility breakdown tailored specifically to your unique pairing
Visual misfire maps - see exactly where miscommunications happen and why, so you can avoid the triggers that kill intimacy
Fantasy alignment analysis - understand how your fantasies complement or clash with your partner's, and how to bridge any gaps
Plus more
Total value: $197
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The 75 Page Decoding Desire Workbook
Attachment style integration - understand how your attachment patterns (Anxious, Dismissive Avoidant, Fearful Avoidant) show up in your sex life and learn to work with them
Erotic Blueprint mapping prompts - uncover your unique sexual blueprint through guided exercises that reveal patterns you never noticed
Secure Couple Checklist - measure your progress and maintain gains you've made
Plus More
Total value: $97
Today it's included for FREE
Why desire rises, fades, or clashes has less to do with technique and more to do with psychological context. Decoding Desire shows you how attachment, emotional safety, and personal wiring shape your sexual connection.
Got questions? Here are answers to common queries before starting your creative journey with us.
Yes—and that’s normal. Desire isn’t fixed; it shifts with life stages, stress, and emotional context. Your top type may change as you grow, heal, or enter different relationships. That’s part of the point: to track how your erotic self ebbs, flows and evolves.
Anyone curious about understanding what shapes their desire.
The Desire Types™ Method and Decoding Desire Course are for people of all genders, sexual orientations, and relationship structures—single, dating, married, poly, or “it’s complicated.” It’s for anyone who’s ever felt confused by mismatched desire, curious about what turns them on, or ready to understand how their erotic self actually works.
Absolutely. This is a private educational experience. Your participation isn't made public and stays between you and the platform. You’re here to understand yourself — not perform for an audience. So no one knows you have participated unless you give expressed consent for a testimonial.